Is my life, my future wrecked, ruined because i have borderline personality disorder & a long mental health?

I'm truly sorry for the pain and abandonment that you are feeling, but with the proper therapy and medication, most of these negatives can be overcome.My best friend suffers from bi-polar disorder and is able to live a largely normal life.She takes anti-depressants and regualrly goes to her doctor for counselling sessions.She does experience difficult periods though, for some reason its more prevalent during the changes of the seasons. Alot of the mental disorders are a chemical imbalance in the brain due to low levels of the hormone seratonin in the brain, its responsible for one's feeling of well-being..My daughter has had mental health issues for several years now and was on meds to treat it. Her frame of mind has improved to the extent, that she has been able to wean herself off of them.It may not be a permanent fix though, and we recognize that she may need to take them again some day.With most mental health issues it comes down to an ongoing maintainance combination of counselling and meds. Please don't lose hope til you've looked into these suggestions, as well as conatcted a mental health agency in your area. They will try to ist you and also help you to realize you are not alone with these problems and also point you in the direction so that you may find help and improvement.Good luck!